Pytanie #1:

Is he just not that into me or is he just busy?

I have been chatting with this guy that i met on face book for about 1 week now.At first i kept our conversation casual but he turned into sexual.We haven't met up in person yet.I am really interested in him so i ask him for his number and we exchanged numbers since its easier than waiting for him to come online.

However,i waited for him to text me but he didn't hear from him for a day so i decided to make the first move by sending him a text message last night.He responded and we exchanged couple text and he didn't reply to my question.I don't want to bethe one who text him so i am waiting for him to initiate it this time.i haven't heard form him so i am just wondering if he is just not that into me or if he just busy.I was also thinking to go online later on to see is he is on.

What should i do?

Pytanie #2:

How do I deal with a friend who seems to be passive aggressive lately?

I have had this friend for 13 years. She is 15 years older than me, but that has never been an issue.
She can be very backhanded with her comments, and has always been sarcastic, and normally I just let things go but its all getting rather cruel and I feel like putting her in the picture about how I will and wont be treated.

Some examples of late have been: At my wedding reception, she told me "there are a lot of people here who have always underestimated you, but you are actually highly capable, and anyone here with any doubts about you wont have any doubts about you when they leave" ????? So people think tiny of me, yet they flew 1000 km to be at my wedding and now because it was a beautiful day with a classy reception, I have proved myself?

*A comment on my husband: "I remember him when he was at the school I taught at... he wasnt very bright"

She sent me a wedding pic she had taken, and it was really lovely. I rang to say thanks so much and she replied that she had called it 'edited' because she had fiddled around with it quite a bit to make it look nice.??


I could go on, but this is enough I think to give you the idea. I value her, but I am tired of the digs and how she disguises her anger or whatever it is with a thin veil of being nice. We travelled overseas a few years ago together, and recently she went with her partner. She commented, "we will have a great time I am sure,but, as you know you have to be so careful about who you travel with".

I couldnt help but wonder if she was hinting that I was a pain.

She asked my husband and I to housesit for her a year ago, which was a holiday opportunity for us as she lives in Sydney.She also said we could use her car. Well we said yes, and when we got there, she asked if we wanted to use her car, as she would prefer us not to. Then when she got back made hints about how much money we saved in accommodation because we stayed at her place. I am so over these comments and sick of her moving the goal posts! I cant win!

Im in my 30's shes in her 50's and perhaps that is part of it. But regardless of what is the issue, I feel that if I tell her I am sick of her negativity, she will just become nastier.

I had a phone call with her over two months ago, which wasnt great. She wanted to nit pick and seems to resent my happiness. I emailed her, she wrote back a month later. I replied, its been six weeks and still nothing.

She will probably say, " I have been so busy" but there is always time for friends.

I feel like telling her she sounds bitter and I have come to this conclusion through her rudeness and put downs. I want to tell her I dont need people like that in my life. Ive also realised shes not much of a confidant, and loyalty is very important to me. Perhaps too much so, since I seem to feel bad for wanting to tell her I am hurt and confused with her thoughtless words.

If this was you, how would you deal with it? Or from what you have read, what advice do you have?

Thanks so much,

I dont want to be confrontational with her,but I am thinking I have put up with her putdowns for so long that it will be a shock for her if I finally say what I think. I am doubtful that it will change things though. I think she will just be sarcastic and end the call.

Hmmm.

Pytanie #3:

Do you enjoy being busy?

I do, I'm often told to just slow down.

What about you?

Pytanie #4:

is gardening necessary for a home to be a home?

"home is not bound by the object (house) itself. a home becomes a home when the people in it becomes engaged in home-centered activities like home renovations, DIY home improvements, and gardening"
--do you reckon it's true? what side are you in?

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what is gardening for you and why do you do it?

do you view it as an additional work, or as a hobby?

what do you plant? --decorative plants are fruits and vegggies?
do you plant beautiful plant species "keep up with the jones'", so your neighbours won't regard your house as "messy" , or just because you love doing it?

do you have any memorable moments with your garden?
we live in a busy world but some people still make time to do gardening.

Pytanie #5:

What's the best way to get through soda withdrawls?

So I have a soda/caffeine addiction. I never used to be so addicted to soda but lately I have been extra tired and busy. I work 2 part-time jobs, go to school full-time, and I also have cats to take care of, a 17 month old son, and a boyfriend who is always nagging me. Anyways, lately I have been drinking about 44 to 60oz of soda a day at LEAST. I have never been so addicted and when I don't have soda or caffeine I feel weak, depressed and tired. I just want to know from those of you who have gone through this (please don't suggest me to take any 5 hour energy drinks or any other caffeinated drinks). Today is the first day that I have not had any soda and I am having really bad withdrawls (I am irritable, tired, ect.). How did anyone else get over this? I really want to stop drinking soda all together because it is causing me to gain weight and break out but I am just having a hard time because of everything going on in my life (and no I can't cut down on classes or hours) but I just need to get over these withdrawls, any suggestions?

Pytanie #6:

I feel angry, scared and upset?

am fifteen years old and at my old middle school, it really wasn't the best environment to be in. People smoked, had sex, took drugs and came to school drunk, at the age of 13. I had to put up with it for two years. I live a while away from the nearest school. So I didn't have a choice, it was just the closest school, I was enrolled in. I was also bullied by an ex friend and she became popular and hated me because people liked me more than her. I became depressed and hated my life. I moved classes but it made things worse.

A group of scumbags in my class, who smoke and have sex on a regular basis, started annoying me. I just went along with it, didn't judge. Then one of the boys who is as scummy as can be. Develops a major crush on me. I don't even talk to him or anything, I don't understand. He began finding pictures of me and saving them to a file on his computer. He graffitied my name everywhere on his books. His friends yelled out "He wants to have anal sex with you!" I got upset about, but let my parents know. I then moved schools, to a private school.

I love it there, everyone is nice and not rough. Everyone is fairly disciplined. I feel a lot happier there and away from all the negative things in the world. I am able to focus on myself for a change. But Because its about an hour away fro, where I live, I have to catch two buses. One to my old school, at the bus stop and one from my old school. I hate doing it, but it but I have to. My parents can't drive me to school everyday and its the only way I can get to school. I hate it. I usually have to wait five to ten minutes there.

I feel scared once I enter that town, it causes extreme anxiety for me. I hate going to that town because I know that boy is still talking about me. Its been over six months since I have attended my new school and the idiots are still asking me at the bus stop why I moved and stuff. Why do they care? I don't even know half of them. I am not person who makes the wrong choices! I haven't even kissed a boy yet! I focus on my studies, I do piano and netball. My life is busy.

Also how can I control my anger towards them. I feel so angry when they talk to me and know my name. I get angry that I cut myself when I get home. Four times on the ankle and once on the thigh.

Pytanie #7:

im freaked out. ive been thinking about death all the time and always think im going to die?

i always think im going to die young. ive been through so many things, my therapist told me that a person in a lifetime will go through. im 20 years ol and im finally doing something better with my life too and i enrolled in school. I just dont know why but for the past few months ive been thinking about death all the time. ive imagined the worst things that could happen. Im so scared like seriously I think of death all the time. ive tried to keep busy...iv taalked to family. but the thought of death always creeps into my head...its like it wont stop. any advie?GREATLY APPRECIATED! THANKS.

Pytanie #8:

My answers are they correct?

For my English work, I have to revise these nonparallel sentences and make them parallel. I do not know if I am correct. Can you correct me If I am wrong and show me how to do them please?

1. The gardener is clean, eager, and a hard worker.

My answer: The gardener is clean, is eager, and is a harder worker.

2. Writing compositions for English, learning a part in the play, and that I am studying for an exam in mathematics keep me busy.

My answer: Writing compositions for English, learning a part for the play, and studying for my exam in mathematics kept me busy.

3. To watch educational television and reading good books are useful pursuits.

My answer: To watch educational television and to read good books are useful pursuits.

4. The President's goals are lowering taxes, to meet the energy crisis, and the deregulation of gas prices.

My answer: The President's goals are lowering taxes, meeting the energy crisis, and deregulating the gas prices.

5. Aunt Matilda loves to sew, cook, and riding horseback.

My answer: Aunt Matilda loves to sew, to cook, and to ride horseback.

Pytanie #9:

Are my answers correct?

For my English work, I have to revise these nonparallel sentences and make them parallel. I do not know if I am correct. Can you correct me If I am wrong and show me how to do them please?

1. The gardener is clean, eager, and a hard worker.

My answer: The gardener is clean, is eager, and is a harder worker.

2. Writing compositions for English, learning a part in the play, and that I am studying for an exam in mathematics keep me busy.

My answer: Writing compositions for English, learning a part for the play, and studying for my exam in mathematics kept me busy.

3. To watch educational television and reading good books are useful pursuits.

My answer: To watch educational television and to read good books are useful pursuits.

4. The President's goals are lowering taxes, to meet the energy crisis, and the deregulation of gas prices.

My answer: The President's goals are lowering taxes, meeting the energy crisis, and deregulating the gas prices.

5. Aunt Matilda loves to sew, cook, and riding horseback.

My answer: Aunt Matilda loves to sew, to cook, and to ride horseback.

Pytanie #10:

what should I do about my relationship with my sons?

My wife left 5 years ago after she had several affairs. My two sons live with me. I've never told them some of the horrible things that she had done, because she IS their mother. Recently they started to spend a lot of time with their mother and pretty much just sleep here. When I try and do anything with them, they just say they are busy. But, they have plenty of time to do things with their mom. Am I wrong to feel hurt as I have been the one who was always there for them. I've thought of telling them the truth about their mom. But, that doesn't seem right either. I don't have any other family and love my sons so much, but they just don't seem to have any need for me anymore. Should I just leave as is or tell them how I feel?

Pytanie #11:

new virgin mobile phone problems !!! HELP !?

okay i just got my new virgin mobile loft i activated it with the $25 plan and it said everything was good, but i tried sending text messages but it seems to be no one received them . so i called but i couldn't get help because virgin mobile was to busy. can someone help and tell me what i should do ?

Pytanie #12:

How do you deal with a rude,hostile,combative doctor's receptionist..?

who after explaining to her that your mom is in the hospital in really bad shape and you just want the blood test results she took the day before and her only reply is:

"I'm too busy right now." (repeated over the course of 4 different phone calls)

Pytanie #13:

Anyone read this? What do you think about her behavior?

NOTE: I'm asking this in etiquette because I feel this is the best forum.

Dr. Jacquelyn Kotarac was a very intelligent, attractive woman and a gifted doctor, estranged boyfriend William Moodie said.

In fact, her attention to detail and connections within the medical community resulted in Moodie getting a new heart valve, Moodie said Wednesday evening. She listened to his chest, noticed something was wrong, and drove him to UCLA Medical Center to meet with the chief of cardiothoracic surgery.

That doctor agreed with Kotarac and the heart valve was replaced, Moodie said.

"She was absolutely brilliant as a doctor," he said.

Kotarac's badly decomposed body was found Saturday wedged in the chimney of Moodie's house. Bakersfield police believe she had been there about three days, since trying to force her way into the house on the evening of Aug. 25.

Kotarac, 49, showed up at the house that night and Moodie, not wanting a confrontation, slipped out the back door when she arrived, police said. She apparently used a shovel to try to force open the back door of the home in the 4300 block of La Mirada Drive, police said.

Moodie, 58, spent the night someplace else, according to police.

At some point, Kotarac used a ladder to get to the roof, removed the chimney cap and slid down the flue feet first, police said. Her body was found stuck near the bottom of the flue. The coroner's office reported she died from being unable to breathe and her death was an accident. Police said Moodie was never a suspect.

Moodie declined to talk about his relationship with Kotarac or what their status was as a couple when she showed up that night.

But he's tired of people saying negative things about her and said it's time to leave her alone.

"She made a horrendously bad decision and paid for it with her life," Moodie said.

He remembers Kotarac, whom he knew for three to three and a half years, as a tremendously giving person who even provided free medical service to some people. Kotarac, a 1991 graduate of UCLA Medical School, was an internal medicine doctor who worked out of an office on San Dimas Street.

As far as hobbies, she was a lifelong fan of equestrian events and owned horses when she was younger. Moodie said he and Kotarac attended a horse jumping competition in Las Vegas, and she often went to see horses race.

Although her busy schedule often didn't allow it, Kotarac also loved to travel, Moodie said.

Police said Kotarac had an airplane ticket to go to Amsterdam with Moodie the Friday after she went missing. Moodie and an office assistant of Kotarac's searched his house Thursday and reported her missing to police because her car and purse were there.

Moodie spent the night at his home Thursday and then went on the trip. Police searched the home Friday evening, but found nothing.

It wasn't until a woman checking on Moodie's fish tank noticed a foul odor Saturday and inspected the chimney flue that Kotarac's body was discovered.

Moodie said he's been staying in hotels since returning to Bakersfield and he won't live in the house. He said he'll have it repaired -- the chimney had to be dismantled to remove the body -- but he imagines there will be some issues selling the home with the notoriety it now has.

Moodie said it's been a difficult time, and Kotarac's death has had an enormous impact on him.

"I feel this incredible sense of loss," he said. "It's very hard to accept the fact that she's gone."

Pytanie #14:

Anyone read this? Any opinions on why she did this?

Dr. Jacquelyn Kotarac was a very intelligent, attractive woman and a gifted doctor, estranged boyfriend William Moodie said.

In fact, her attention to detail and connections within the medical community resulted in Moodie getting a new heart valve, Moodie said Wednesday evening. She listened to his chest, noticed something was wrong, and drove him to UCLA Medical Center to meet with the chief of cardiothoracic surgery.

That doctor agreed with Kotarac and the heart valve was replaced, Moodie said.

"She was absolutely brilliant as a doctor," he said.

Kotarac's badly decomposed body was found Saturday wedged in the chimney of Moodie's house. Bakersfield police believe she had been there about three days, since trying to force her way into the house on the evening of Aug. 25.

Kotarac, 49, showed up at the house that night and Moodie, not wanting a confrontation, slipped out the back door when she arrived, police said. She apparently used a shovel to try to force open the back door of the home in the 4300 block of La Mirada Drive, police said.

Moodie, 58, spent the night someplace else, according to police.

At some point, Kotarac used a ladder to get to the roof, removed the chimney cap and slid down the flue feet first, police said. Her body was found stuck near the bottom of the flue. The coroner's office reported she died from being unable to breathe and her death was an accident. Police said Moodie was never a suspect.

Moodie declined to talk about his relationship with Kotarac or what their status was as a couple when she showed up that night.

But he's tired of people saying negative things about her and said it's time to leave her alone.

"She made a horrendously bad decision and paid for it with her life," Moodie said.

He remembers Kotarac, whom he knew for three to three and a half years, as a tremendously giving person who even provided free medical service to some people. Kotarac, a 1991 graduate of UCLA Medical School, was an internal medicine doctor who worked out of an office on San Dimas Street.

As far as hobbies, she was a lifelong fan of equestrian events and owned horses when she was younger. Moodie said he and Kotarac attended a horse jumping competition in Las Vegas, and she often went to see horses race.

Although her busy schedule often didn't allow it, Kotarac also loved to travel, Moodie said.

Police said Kotarac had an airplane ticket to go to Amsterdam with Moodie the Friday after she went missing. Moodie and an office assistant of Kotarac's searched his house Thursday and reported her missing to police because her car and purse were there.

Moodie spent the night at his home Thursday and then went on the trip. Police searched the home Friday evening, but found nothing.

It wasn't until a woman checking on Moodie's fish tank noticed a foul odor Saturday and inspected the chimney flue that Kotarac's body was discovered.

Moodie said he's been staying in hotels since returning to Bakersfield and he won't live in the house. He said he'll have it repaired -- the chimney had to be dismantled to remove the body -- but he imagines there will be some issues selling the home with the notoriety it now has.

Moodie said it's been a difficult time, and Kotarac's death has had an enormous impact on him.

"I feel this incredible sense of loss," he said. "It's very hard to accept the fact that she's gone."

Pytanie #15:

what home girl and my girl mean?

m going out with this guy for 2 months and he said he likes me and want to be with me but we never talk about it seriously and i don't wanna ask coz i don't really want to sound clingy.we almost talk see each other everyday and also he seems so busy with friends like his phone rings every 1 sec which make me crazy when his friends call he always said i'm with my girl or sometimes she uses home girl ...... .... what does that mean and where i am really??btw i'm 19

Pytanie #16:

Have you ever met a famous person?

Who was it, where was it and did you say anything to them?

In England, it was surprisingly common to see a lot of football [soccer] players around in some of the major football cities like London, Manchester and Liverpool. Quite often, you just go up to them and if they're busy just say "Alright, mate?" If they're not, you get a photo/autograph. My mum's best friend is Joe Hart's godmother too, so I've met him a few times. I met Orlando Bloom in a shop once too. Bit random.

How about you guys? =]

Pytanie #17:

Conservatives: How would you go about reforming healthcare?

Conservatives keep screaming that Obama's health care plan is horrible, but the problem is that they are so busy screaming about its horribleness that they don't offer any alternatives for insuring the 40 million uninsured citizens. I believe that part of the reason why Obama won is because in the media all you heard was republicans demonizing his health care reform which insinuates that they feel there's nothing wrong with our current state of affairs.

Background: When I was in High School I was hit with Cancer.. I was under my father's insurance...but when I was 20 the cancer came back and all I had was my school insurance which only covered 25,000 in medical expenses. My father tried to get me some insurance but they all rejected me because of my history. Two of them accepted me but made the premiums so high I'm sure they didn't expect us to be able to afford it. I had to drop out of college and ended up with a 1.2 million medical bill. Since then I've been on medicaid, but I have to do under the table jobs only because if you make over $600 a month you're not eligible. I'm afraid to go off medicaid and get insurance through a job because if I get laid off I'll lose my insurance & I won't be eligible for medicaid for at least 2 years after being laid off as that is the rule. What if the cancer comes back?
Wari: I guess you're just giving lefties more reason to vote for Obama again. Thanks for wishing my death and all.
So far all I'm hearing is "obama's plan is bad". Like I said. We already heard this for many years now.. What's YOUR alternative. This is why Repub. LOST. You don't give any. You only complain.
Tenth: I didn't know that they were trying to take away medicaid actually. Thanks for letting me know.
Warren V: My parents told me that after 20 I could only be put on something called a Cobra and that it would be too expensive for them. Honestly I don't really know the specifics of the cobra thing, but all that mattered was that my parents said they couldn't do it.

Pytanie #18:

I got the following offering letter from jonny's supermarket london. is it a scam?

Dear First name last name,

After discussing your employment proposal with my wife and family lawyer, we have come to a conclusion that you match our requirements. You are hereby issued with the Contract Letter which is attached above and is approved by the UK Home Office for recruitment purposes.

I also received an approval from the UK Home Office to employ you, I have attached the approved contract letter issued to me for your review. I have applied for your Certificate of Eligibility (COE-UKIMG2010) as UK Home Office instructed me to enable your application be quickly considered, as that is important to prove that I am sponsoring your travel down to the UK and to prove that you are eligible to take up job position in UK before they send your reference to the nearest British Consulate in your country.

You need to sign the contract after going through it and send a scanned copy indicating your travel date (For Flight Booking which I will pay for), to the staff at UK Home Office in charge of your application for the Certificate of Eligibility for their records and advice to us: see their address below .

Home Office, UK Boarder Agency,
PO Box 3468, Sheffield,
S3 8WA,
United Kingdom
E mail: travel-guide@hotmail.co.uk

On receipt of the Form COE-UKIMG2010 by me, my lawyer shall courier it to you with hard contract copies, prepaid flight tickets and any accompanying permit documents to enable you receive Visa from the nearest British consulate following instructions from the UK Home Office as they shall let you know date to visit British Consulate nearest to you, hence follow procedure. I am busy right now and would try to contact you via phone or you can reach me on +44-7024060560, +44-7024039569 while you start doing the needful things.

Should you wish to come down with any member of your family, is advisable that you notify us to enable us notify the UK Home Office on time

We wait to receive you when you arrive, have a blissful day ahead and God bless you as you come.

Warm Regard,

Captain Joe Morgan

For Jonny SuperMarket,
Capital house, 120 High Street,
London, LNI 5DQ, UK.
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Pytanie #19:

What did Muhammad do in his spare time when he wasn't raping kids, pillaging, killing, etc?

We all know from historical documents that good old pedophile Muhammad loved that young young ******. What did this dude do in his spare time when he wasn't busy committing atrocities?

Pytanie #20:

Gemini: need your advise?

Okie dokie. I have heard that all Gemini's are pretty defiant. Well this being the case, when my one yr old doesnt get his way he will slap, kick, bite me. It doesnt happen every time, but alot of times he will. My question is, do you know a Gemini that is defiant, or are you one? Also, if you are a gemini, whats the best way to calm you down. What kinda challenges do you like to keep you busy?

Pytanie #21:

I'm nervous about my first dog, help?

I'm going to be getting a one year old black in 2-3 weeks, and I'm nervous.

The dog is smart but he is stubborn..
For example, he somehow got out of the basement (I guess he just hopped through the spaces between the gate) and ran out the door as we were getting outside. He ran out, and he would not come. And kept running away and i guess thought he was playing. I was so scared, the road was busy! He would not come, so my sister lured him in the back yard.

He knows sit, but doesn't really know anything else. Unless you have a ball or a treat, he'll listen to you. I've been around the dog for four days, and he is really good. He is calm with small children, even when they were annoying him, and he was not noisy at all unless you teased him or left him alone while you were in his clear view inside the house.

I'm just nervous, he also pulls on the leash when we took him for walks during the 4 days..:/

help
Since he is one, is it too late to train him to stay and other well needed dog commands?

Pytanie #22:

Do You Think Batista was Right about Cena Being In The Spotlight more often than he ever did?

Don't Care if you're a Cena Hater or Fan Whats your "Honest" Opinion?[a non emotional Answer]
if he received more push & Spotlight While W.W.E were Busy With Cena.Could He have Achieved a much more Higher Level as HHH or Cena or Austin? i mean is WWE & Cena is the reason He Quit W.W.E???

Pytanie #23:

5 weeks pregnant, why does this keep happening?? Stress or over doing it? Please!!?

I had a miscarriage last year and I believe it was because of the issues that seem to be happening again, but I cant let it get outta control this time, I am currently 5 weeks pregnant. Last time it started by the feelings or an anxiety attack/low blood sugar attack/me feeling like I was going crazy!! It got really bad last time where I couldnt even work and I ended up losing the baby :( I dont know what makes me feel this way. I do stress alot and have alot of energy and rarely rest. I am always doing something. Yesterday when I started to feel this way it was after 6 straight hours of working, didnt take one sit break, was very busy and running around, was drinking but only had time to snack on a small bag of chips. My husband thinks it is a mix of stress and not eating enough and not taking a break. I really want this pregnancy to be healthy :( I also have bad insomnia and only sleep like 4-5 hours a night. I just dont know if the feelings are somewhat normal and they scare me so I let them get out of control. This never happened with my 1st pregnancy. Im so afraid this stress and worry will cause another miscarriage.
I found out I was pregnant almost 2 weeks ago and I have felt great since. Ive had symptoms, but have been eating, drinking, and trying to not worry. Since last night when I got those feelings, I have no appetite and my heart is also beating very fast.

Pytanie #24:

Young American girl interested in moving to England, what are some of the best big English cities?

I'm very interested in moving to England as soon as I'm financially stable, America is my home by birth but England is my home by heart. I'm from Chicago and I love the big city, so I was wondering what are some of the best big cities in England for a recently 18 year old girl. Also, what are the best towns to live in within those cities? Best as in cheap and most importantly safe seeing as I'm a very petite young lady.

London interests me only because it's the largest and most busy city in all of England which is what I love, but I'm also interested in Brighton because it kind of reminds me of Chicago except without the giant buildings. What can you tell me about these two cities?

Just out of curiosity as well, where are the best places a girl can find herself a decent British man in his early-to-late twenties? I hear the dating lifestyle is a bit different across the pond, which might be a little tricky for me seeing as I lack experience in that department.

Pytanie #25:

What do u think of this married man? Do u think he is interested in me the least? PLS HELP ME?

There is this guy i saw him at work once in a meeting and the next day i was told to meet him for business. I was attracted to him from the first meeting because there was so many ppl from my dept and he was making a lot of eye contact with me.

The next business meeting i was told to meet him because my manager doesnt like the way he talked to him. I went to his office and told him we need ur help with this business, i knew from the start he can't help us(and my manager is nonsense) so he told me sorry i dont deal with so and so.

So i didnt want to leave and wanted conversation going, i saw he is wearing a ring. I was like explain to me what u do as i am trainee. He said i will send u by email. I was like can u give me now? he said ok i will print for u. So he asked how old r u? i was like 24. He gave me the paper and i kept talking.

Anyways i told him i resigned which is true. He gave me his cell no. That was a month ago. I proposed to have dinner two weeks ago and he agreed.

We had dinner together and i noticed his wedding ring was not there. Even tho i am very much attracted to him i didnt want to look desperate. So I kept the topic general and there was a couple eating next to us but the shock and horror was that they kept staring at us.

He asked me why the hell are they looking at us, and i was like most probably they are free and are weird ppl but he told me may be because of our age gap which most probably was the case because he is 49. I dismissed that and said well i think they shud mind their business.

Overall the dinner was ok and he paid for it and the funny thing was he didnt even shake hands with me or anything.

I am going to another city were i will work and my sister is not well so i will be with her. I asked him if he was married by text msg(he told me to guess) i knew 100% he is married coz of the ring at his office so i said may be single or married and he said no i am married.

So i met him five days ago for coffee. Again under the pretext to give him a book he likes it and i have it with me. I was late for 30 minutes, anyways we were having coffee and asked me to eat and said he have migraine so he doesnt want to eat, i told him i dont want to eat as well.

He told me to take some ice cream or sweets, and i was like are u eating ice cream and he said no and i was like well i dont like ice cream really(which is true). So i asked for water and orange and he asked for orange as well.

He opened the water for me and pour the water in the glass. We were talking for one hour and he asked me do u like sushi( i hate sushi) but i was like yeah, can u cook? he said yes, so i was like how come u never cooked for me? He grinned and said i have some visitors for a week now so after that i will cook for u. I was like well i am leaving to another city after 3 days but when i am back that is after 3 months then may be and he was like yes sure. So while sitting we discussed about work and we had something in common that most of the staff are total shamble. And i noticed again he wasnt wearing his ring. After we chatted one hour we left to the parking and i gave him the book and some chocolates(i got the chocolates as a gift from my friend), however, i dont eat chocolates so i gave him and it was really expensive chocolates with deco and some books of mine which he borrowed. So he told me thank u so much, when we meet i will give u the books, thanks a lot and that was that.

why did he remove the ring both two nights i met him( does that mean he is little interested). And do you think he knows i am attracted to him even though i never told him? Pls help me


Plus today I sent him my pic and asked him if I look ill(cause my friends n mother) thinks I do and he answered me with a text saying " forget it u look good"

So i called him to say good bye today as im relocating to another city: he tells me sorry katy i didnt give u much attention as i was busy at work and i said it is okay; he then said i want u to join a gym;;;;;; at that point i went along with him and said yeah i am planning to be skinny and he answered yeah i love skinny girls; he went on to say katy i want u to go to the gym everyday and after 3 months i will see you and say wow katy great figure; even tho i was gobsmacked i went a long with his talk and said yeah i will definitely join the gym n go everyday: he said yeah u will wait for me in that city? and i wanted to say wtf but i said yeah i will:


So now just wondering to be honest; do u think he is interested in me the least or attracted to me? I dont want rude answers: just different opinions: thanks

Pytanie #26:

What do you think of this married man? DO YOU THINK HE IS INTERESTED IN ME THE LEAST,? PLS HELP ME?

There is this guy i saw him at work once in a meeting and the next day i was told to meet him for business. I was attracted to him from the first meeting because there was so many ppl from my dept and he was making a lot of eye contact with me.

The next business meeting i was told to meet him because my manager doesnt like the way he talked to him. I went to his office and told him we need ur help with this business, i knew from the start he can't help us(and my manager is nonsense) so he told me sorry i dont deal with so and so.

So i didnt want to leave and wanted conversation going, i saw he is wearing a ring. I was like explain to me what u do as i am trainee. He said i will send u by email. I was like can u give me now? he said ok i will print for u. So he asked how old r u? i was like 24. He gave me the paper and i kept talking.

Anyways i told him i resigned which is true. He gave me his cell no. That was a month ago. I proposed to have dinner two weeks ago and he agreed.

We had dinner together and i noticed his wedding ring was not there. Even tho i am very much attracted to him i didnt want to look desperate. So I kept the topic general and there was a couple eating next to us but the shock and horror was that they kept staring at us.

He asked me why the hell are they looking at us, and i was like most probably they are free and are weird ppl but he told me may be because of our age gap which most probably was the case because he is 49. I dismissed that and said well i think they shud mind their business.

Overall the dinner was ok and he paid for it and the funny thing was he didnt even shake hands with me or anything.

I am going to another city were i will work and my sister is not well so i will be with her. I asked him if he was married by text msg(he told me to guess) i knew 100% he is married coz of the ring at his office so i said may be single or married and he said no i am married.

So i met him five days ago for coffee. Again under the pretext to give him a book he likes it and i have it with me. I was late for 30 minutes, anyways we were having coffee and asked me to eat and said he have migraine so he doesnt want to eat, i told him i dont want to eat as well.

He told me to take some ice cream or sweets, and i was like are u eating ice cream and he said no and i was like well i dont like ice cream really(which is true). So i asked for water and orange and he asked for orange as well.

He opened the water for me and pour the water in the glass. We were talking for one hour and he asked me do u like sushi( i hate sushi) but i was like yeah, can u cook? he said yes, so i was like how come u never cooked for me? He grinned and said i have some visitors for a week now so after that i will cook for u. I was like well i am leaving to another city after 3 days but when i am back that is after 3 months then may be and he was like yes sure. So while sitting we discussed about work and we had something in common that most of the staff are total shamble. And i noticed again he wasnt wearing his ring. After we chatted one hour we left to the parking and i gave him the book and some chocolates(i got the chocolates as a gift from my friend), however, i dont eat chocolates so i gave him and it was really expensive chocolates with deco and some books of mine which he borrowed. So he told me thank u so much, when we meet i will give u the books, thanks a lot and that was that.

why did he remove the ring both two nights i met him( does that mean he is little interested). And do you think he knows i am attracted to him even though i never told him? Pls help me


Plus today I sent him my pic and asked him if I look ill(cause my friends n mother) thinks I do and he answered me with a text saying " forget it u look good"

So i called him to say good bye today as im relocating to another city: he tells me sorry katy i didnt give u much attention as i was busy at work and i said it is okay; he then said i want u to join a gym;;;;;; at that point i went along with him and said yeah i am planning to be skinny and he answered yeah i love skinny girls; he went on to say katy i want u to go to the gym everyday and after 3 months i will see you and say wow katy great figure; even tho i was gobsmacked i went a long with his talk and said yeah i will definitely join the gym n go everyday: he said yeah u will wait for me in that city? and i wanted to say wtf but i said yeah i will:


So now just wondering to be honest; do u think he is interested in me the least or attracted to me? I dont want rude answers: just different opinions: thanks
P.S. I am planning to not contact him frequently but may be email him once a month. Once i get back after 4 months i wanna contact him and get my books back but again i really and truly like him very much

Pytanie #27:

How would you feel 10pts?

Before:
"Mike" was your bestfriend of 2 years (you both liked e/o). All of the sudden he started changing (he'll rarely txt/call you). Then you asked him wassup with that? he said "I'll explain later in person please be patient". This went on for a year of rarely talking to e/o. Next thing you know you meet a new guy "Tim" and you start dating him. You never told mike about tim. Soon you got sick of it all and just told mike "sorry i just see us as friends only". Mike got sad but he kept it moving.


One year later:
Mike calls you from mexico & finally confessed to you what's going on and tells you his secret that now he's a millionaire and he's been really busy getting rich which was true he showed a bank statement it read 6 million dollars. He also said "You're the 1st to know of my secret & the 2nd girl to know will be his future wife". Then you told mike about your feelings towards him again & he then told you "Let's just be friends please". Now you see mike driving a ferrari & he just bought a million dollar condo w/ beach views. He's even about to open a restaurant!. All mike talks about is women, just different women he meets all the time!.

How would you feel? were all just 21

Pytanie #28:

what do you think this was? (10 points)?

ok so just an hour ago i came back from the cemetery...i had a busy day and ended up there late but anyways, i was just adding new flowers to my grandmothers grave... had to get some water from a spooky place....and i was all alone to only a few guards and workers there, well actually no workers only like 2

umm and i managed to get some water...it was far away from my grandma's tombstone, ok as i was walking back i saw what appeared to be a figure standing 140 feet from (my estimation) i didnt really get a good look at what it actually was or who it was...

because it was a little foggy...umm so i just ignored it and thought it was just a passer by and kept on walking returning to my car

as i drove to the exit gate the mysterious figure had moved closer to my car...but thats impossible because i drove for 2minutes to just reach the gate how could it reach the gate before i did???

i still couldnt see any face as it was now standing 45 feet from where my car was......

ok so thats my story, sorry bad English but i dont want to spend so much time on 1 thing...making it perfect

anyways i want to hear your opinions on what you think it was...?

so far i cant explain it and i was scared to death when i left that place....im still kind of scared since its 11:22pm now

the other strange thing is the fog doesnt seem as thick as it was at the cemetery, also im 18 and a half so no answers saying im a baby and that was just some dude

yeah ive never seen a dude atleast 3-5 feet tall...

Pytanie #29:

The motel manager told me she would call me about an interview today, but never did. What should I do?

Let me explain here what is going on. It's labor day weekend, I had an interview the day before yesterday and the manager asked me; "So when do you think you can start?" I said; "As soon as possible"

She told me to go into the lobby and wait for her. I waited and she told me "I'll call you tomorrow and tell you whats going on" No call today err sorry, yesterday.

The motel has a convention center attached to it with a banquet hall and that is one reason I think she might not be calling me, might be out of town or just way too busy.

I called yesterday and the guy at the front desk told me he would leave a post it for her to give me a call if she comes in. I suppose she didn't come in for work. I don't know but I think it's bullshit to lead me on like that.

I wonder what I should do about this. Should I call tomorrow too?
Kate- Thank you, that was very insightful. I've actually been calling this job for about two weeks almost every day, lol. She finally gave me an interview and she never called me back when she promised so I had to step up and keep calling.

I am confused though because she asked me when I could start....she seemed interested in me working there.

Pytanie #30:

bad violin practicing?

ok so i have been doing violin for 3 years now im 12 and i didnt really practice over the summer becasue i was busy but school started back up and it feels like i dont hear the notes right, i always squeak, and everything seems wrong!! please tell me why this is happening:/

Pytanie #31:

Why isn't my best friend talking to me anymore?

We used to talk all the time but he never texts me or wants to hang out these days. we've been friends for a few years and used to be really close, text constantly and tell each other everything . I asked him why he doesnt talk to me as much and he just says he's busy, but he manages to find time to talk to other ppl . Do you think i should remain friends with him or just not talk to him for a week and see if he comes to me.

Pytanie #32:

Tired mom... I need some advice?

Hi, I am really trying to cope here. I feel horribly overwhelmed and I dont' have a clue what to do. I have two children. 2 and one that is a few months old. I am in graduate school and I am so busy. I really have never any time for myself and I'm kind of starting to get frustrated b/c my husband gets a lot of time to himself. I have no idea what to do. When I want to go do something I feel guilty and end up just hanging around being depressed. I am part of a softball league and it was kind of supposed to be my time but my husband is on the team now. He's just a bench warmer unless someone doesn't show etc so it's weird b/c it seems like if I have free time then he has to have free time too so we are always trying to find a babysitter etc. It just seems so weird b/c if he does something I get stuck at home with both the kids and when I want to do something he has to do it with me or do soemthing else. I am not asking for much but to play a game a week and the rest of the week it's kids, school, housecleaning, you name it I do it.

I can slowly feel myself burning out and I have no idea what to do.

Pytanie #33:

I'm A Mother Who Needs Some Help?

I'm a mother of 8 children and you can probably tell from that, that I'm extremely busy, so I'm trying type this fast, so sorry if their are misspelling and grammar. Okay I'm 45 and happily married for 25years to a wonderful husband. we have 8 children 7 girls and one boy. 7 of my children still live at home, twin girls who are 18, and 17,16,14,13 year old daughters and a 8 year old son. My 17 year old daughter was adopted just incase you were thinking how could I have so many kids back to back.

That's my family but here the situation. My family has just recently gotten custody of a 16 year family friend. His mother was my best friend and she was battling cancer and towards the end she realized she wasn't going to make it. And because she didn't have any relatives we decided my husband and I would get legal custody of Brady ( that's his name), it was little more complicated than that but, I'll spare the details.

Any way before Brady's mother passed away he 6 months ago he had been dating my 16 year old daughter Mercedes, for almost a year or so. So like I said 6 months ago after Brady's mother died he moved in with my family. He's been a great kid since moving. He gets along with everyone. He has been active in sports, he is verbally committed to USC for football. Or in simpler terms he is about to get a scholarship from USC baring any setbacks, And he's been at the top of his class in grades avg a 4.0 and I'm very proud of him. And the best thing about him is that I trust him. No the best thing about him is that he isn’t having sex with my daughter

My husband and I set rules for Brady and my daughter Mercedes since they are dating, like no sex, not going into each others rooms past a certain hour on weekdays. When they go into each others rooms no closed doors. no excessive kissing in the house. No cuddling around me or her dad, and more common rules you would set for a teenage couple living together. We are trying to control the situation as much as can without them feeling controlled.

But things have been going crazy with my family. My 18 year old daughter is an actress, and just recently landed her first big time role in a movie, my 17 yr old daughter is an aspiring singer who is traveling the states singing in small venues, and my other 18 yr old daughter is a model who is overseas right now doing a shoot. My husband is currently with her. So its just me with 4 teenagers and child to care for until my husband comes back home in about a month.

The problem is my daughter Mercedes, I am so disappointed in her, she’s becoming this person that I don’t like. I found out from Brady maybe about a month ago, that Mercedes had tried pot. I confronted her about it because I one of those people who thinks any type of drug is horrible and they ruin lives, and she told me it was a one time thing so I blew it off. But Brady kept trying to talk to me about it, and telling me he was concerned but, with all the other kids I just kind of put it off. I know that’s horrible parenting. Two weeks ago She I saw her smoking so I finally made an issue of it. I grounded her, I went through all of the dangers of drugs. After that she told me she hated me, and that I neglect her and that I don’t care about her. So she’s been mad, and I might have mentioned to her that Brady was telling me what was going on, so she’s been mad and wont really talk to him

I talked to Brady last week and he told me how Mercedes felt that like she was less than her older sisters and that she felt like she could never live up to them. And that felt that my husband and I loved everyone else more than her. Brady told me that Mercedes had told him that she felt jealous of him because she feels that we treat Brady more like family than her. She thinks I’m not proud of her. So I tried to talk to her about it and she refused to. Than she blew up at Brady for telling me and won’t talk to any of us.

When she stopped talking to the family, I could tell Brady was depressed and he’s been moping around the house because she wont talk to him until Friday of last week, everything seemed to calm down, Mercedes started talking to everyone, and she apologized for the way she had acted. That same night she and Brady wanted to go to a movie, when they came home they seemed fine, I didn’t really check. But about an hour and half at about 1 in the morning I heard them in our basement and I went down and see them kissing/having oral sex. and when I stopped it and talked to them I could smell the marijuana and alcohol. They reeked of it. But they were so “wasted” I grounded them then yelled at them the next day. I’m so disappointed in both of them.

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I tried to talk to Brady and I asked him why he did it, and he told me because he wanted to do it, which I know is a lie because he wouldn’t look me in the eye, and he told me that it wasn’t fair because he feels that he has to choose Mercedes and lie to me or be honest and have Mercedes hate him.

I don't want to assume anything but, i know for a fact Brady wouldn't willing want to do drugs, because his aunt died of a drug overdose and i know he wouldn't willing jeopardize his football scholarship, the most important thing to him. i don't want to assume because he told me it was his choice but i feel like my daughter caused it to happen. i feel really close to him and i know that he didn't want to have sex or was at least waiting because he didn't want to ruin his teenage years with a pregnancy. he told me it was their first time. but, now he has been hesitate to talk to me anymore

What do you think I should do about this situation? And is their any advice you can give me?

Pytanie #34:

My ex still thinks i love her please help?

so me and my x girlfriend broke up but we still decided to be friends right? so we hang out ever now and then but now a days every time i go to her house she says that shes busy but today her little brothers told me that she said i was a jerk and that i am like still trying to get with her. And also when she says shes doing work its really just her excuse for not wanting to hang out with me.now her little bros are pretty tight there fairly trustworthy people so im like kind of wondering how i can get the message across to her that i dont like her anymore because i still want to be friends
thank you natly thats what i think im going to do

Pytanie #35:

How do I increase my social circle (I'm off school for a year)?

I'm 17 years old, I just finished Grade 11 last June and I'm on a year off.
I'm on a gap year because of many good reasons....

Anyway, I don't have very many friends. I do have a couple of very close friends. I'm quite social though.

I'd just like to ask how I'm supposed to meet people my age to be friends with?

I don't want to be all bored and alone for a year...my friends are all going to be busy with school.

Pytanie #36:

Can you look at this for me. Less than 600 words. :D?

So this is the beginning part to a novel I'm writing. Can you please tell me your thought on it? Thanks BB :D

The light of the full moon was shining down on her. Everywhere around her people were in different states of undress, preparing for the change that was going to happen. Next month it would be her turn. She could feel her heart beat with excitement. Squirming on the tree limb, she let her eyes wander over her pack-mates. She could feel her beast's need to run with the pack, her skin tingled from the energy building up inside her. Her hands ran over her arms trying to sooth the energy that was pricking her skin. A shout from the pack leader called the pack to order. She could see Maddor, his arms and legs bending with his transformation, and the silvery hair of his fur, slowly covering his skin. It was time. As their leader changed, the pack followed. Their once human bodies, bending and twisting with the change, and their fur slowly covered their skin.

As the last of the pack finished their change, Abby, her hungry eyes never straying from her packmates, felt the beast inside her howl, desperate to join the pack that was preparing for their run. As much as she and her beast longed to join them, she knew it was far too dangerous to run with the pack while in her human form. Once their beasts took over, especially during a hunt, they acted just as their nature called for them to do.

Abby sat on the tree limb, and waited, waited until the pack would return. As the night grew colder, Abby wished for the higher heat that would come when she first changed. Soon Abby's eyes began to close, and she felt weariness overcome her. The pack would be gone for quite a while still, so Abby let her body slump against the tree trunk, and closed her eyes. Telling herself it would only be for awhile.

"Abby! Abby!” Startling awake, Abby had to grab onto the tree as she felt her body fall forward.

"Tyler you idiot, hasn't you momma taught you to not wake a girl sleeping in a tree."

"Okay, just thought you might want to get to school on time."

School? School! Shit! what time was it. Looking at the watch on her wrist, Abby swore and frantically started climbing down the tree. Mr Varner would kill her if she was late again.

An hour later Abby was dressed and ready for school. If she ran she would just make it in time. Closing the front door to her house, Abby walked the short distance from the front of her house to the little trail that led to the forest near her house. Once at the forests edge she checked to make sure her packback was secure on her back and then started to run. The trees blurred to smudgy green as she swiftly ran, her long legs quickly eating up the ground under her. Abby knew every rock, tree and limb in the forest, she had run in here since she was able to tottle. She nimbly jumped over a fallen tree limb, the speed and exhilaration of the run causing her to laugh in delight.

All to soon Abby reached the end of the forest and into the busy part of Respin town. Respin was one of only a few city in the world which was only for werewolves. ‘Normals’, as she called them, were not even aware of what, or where Respin was.

Now that she was closer to the school Abby started to slow to a walk. Familiar shouts and calls were everywhere. The community was small enough that everyone knew each other.

Pytanie #37:

did you commit blasphemy against God?

if you wanted to say "God is the God of life" but instead of saying "life" you unintentionally,said "lie" unconsciously maybe because your mind was wondering somewhere else our you were busy but you correct yourself immediately after realizing what your lips just uttered, did you commit blasphemy? can the unforgivable sin be committed this way? i wonder how the Lord would deal with such things if it ever happens to christians, thank you.

Pytanie #38:

Need some bday help, please?

Should I have a bday party? I never really had one with just my friends. For some reason, I feel kind of scared or shy to invite my friends to come to a bday party. I mean what if they can't come? I'm just stressed about that. Also my real bday is on a school day, which really sucks. (btw its on a tuesday. so no friday to saturday sleepover) So I don't know what to do, because since school started, we have lots of homework and i'm busy on saturday. So it would be on a sunday. So should I have and invite my friends to a bday party? We would probably go to the pool or something of the sort.

Pytanie #39:

Why is it so hard to make friendships with females, guys?

Why is it so hard to make friendships with females, guys?
Right now I'm afraid of meeting new people even though I want to, I'm tired of making the effort of going into work and being friendly to females and them either A.) Ignoring me B.) Gossiping behind my back C.) Resenting me for whatever reason.

I feel like it's a broken record and my personality is shy, modest, friendly funny and not the arrogant type, I never thought or think I'm better then other people seriously, I'm a loner not that I need a lot of friends I'm just tired of girls hating me for no reason, not wanting to hang out and rejecting me when i ask if they wanna hang out, for some reason I always run into the ones who want to compete with me, I never realize it until later.

Anyways, now with the guys.. I try to be friends with, they either want to date me and be boyfriend and girlfriends and I don't want to or they want to sleep with me, I watch them in the corner of my eye doing the doggie style position.

Now, why is it so hard to make friends with girls bc I'm starting to see a broken record going on over and over again, they take me off their buddy list which i thought they like me, they take me off their top list and I dunno why, then they tell people I'm envious of them when I'm not. At work Ive been harassed by girls, the funny thing is they're all girls and I'm tired of it. I want to be left the **** alone, at least treat me with respect at work.

So, what do you guys think i should do, what do you think is wrong with these girls an how to keep myself busy without worrying about what they think of me.

Pytanie #40:

Whats up with skunks lately?

I have only seen skunks on maybe 15-30 occasions in my life before. Now I have seen them that many times since this spring. I live in a suburb just north of chicago. This year my friends dog got sprayed by a sunk. And just last night I was walking along a busy street and it was garbage day. So the garbage was out. I saw 2 skunks which when saw me scattered. Then I continued to walk and saw one hanging out by a garbage back. Then I walked to the side of it on someones lawn about 40 feet away. Then skunk then sprints up to me within 4 feet of me facing me with its tail really high up in the air and it trying to make it self seem as big as possible. Why in the world would the skunk be so aggressive to do that? Every other time I have seen one they always make an effort to avoid me. This one sprinted up to me. I was in shock at first and then backed up quickly and walked completely around it. Is there a reason why I have been seeing so many skunks lately and why was it being so aggressive? I also almost got sprayed once before this year when I didn't see it in the dark and was about 5 feet away from me with its rear facing me and it hissing.

Pytanie #41:

How to fill my girlfriend's heart with lust?

I've been dating this girl for two and a half months now and because we were so busy, we couldn't see each other much. The farthest we got was second base, but I want to get farther with her, and to do that, I want to fill her heart with lust.

She's not very sexual, but I am very much so, and because I'm a gentleman, I do not want to force her to do something she's not ready to do. I'm not so eager to have sex with her, but I want to know how to spark a fire in her to make her filled with lust for me. So, how can I get my girlfriend extremely sexual for me? Any techniques?

Pytanie #42:

Why do you think she cancelled on me?

I have a close female friend. I revealed to her last week that I had feelings for her. She seemed ok about it for the most part. She just said that she was flattered, but that I shouldn't have told her. She asked me to go to a restaurant with her a couple days latter, but I said I was busy. Then we had planned to go to an art walk tonight but she called and left a message saying that she will not go. Is there a reason for this? I wanted to ask her why she cancelled, but I thought I should not.

Pytanie #43:

I'm 14 years old and am writing a murder mystery. Does this beginning interest you?

It was a crisp, clear, January morning when the villagers of Benton spotted him.

He was alone, his hands shoved into the pockets of his trousers, his black coat buttoned up to his neck. His face was long, and narrow, his copper-colored hair getting tousled with each gust of the bitter wind. Fear lurked behind sparkling green eyes that contrasted against a sprinkle of faded freckles across his nose. He stepped lightly through the un-plowed city streets; his pair of highly priced winter boots, laced up neatly over his feet, making the slightest crunching sound with every step he took through the snow that had fallen the night before.

The people of Benton did not often walk the streets alone. The town was bursting at the seams with young families and children. But because of the very expensive university located a few miles away, they were used to young, arrogant college students strutting through the city as if it belonged to them. The townspeople barely lifted their eyes to such people nowadays, simply deciding to ignore them.

However, this man seemed oddly out of place to those who gave him more then a once-over glance. He was handsome, but his sunken cheeks were gaunt and shallow as if he had experienced many troubles throughout his young life. His eyes darted every which way, and the villagers who were slightly more observant noticed easily that the collar pressed up against his neck was not only to shield himself against the winter air, but to hide his unfamiliar face from those around him.

The man walked, as nonchalantly as he could, past an old bookstore, a small but busy little market, a toy store decorated in greens and reds for the Holidays, a movie theater, a few apartments, and a flower shop. His eyebrows threaded together just slightly as he approached the end of the road, as he had not yet found whatever it was he was searching for.

Suddenly, he turned to his left, his eyes running over an old, dark coffee shop with only a handful of costumers inside. He gave a quick glance over his shoulder, his lips tightening just a tad as he proceeded towards the entrance of the little shop.

A bell chimed as he swung the door open, a gust of hot air spilling over his face. He stepped inside, and as his eyes adjusted to the different light, he listened to the calming sound of china getting stacked behind the counters, the low hum of the costumers’ voices, and a loud ancient-looking TV in the corner set on a News station. He blinked a few times, his numb fingers fumbling to unbutton his jacket.

His gaze swept over the people of the shop. A few teenagers were sitting on the couches, sipping hot chocolate and laughing. An older couple, most likely grandparents, were sitting at one of the round tables reading the paper. A middle-aged man was working behind the counter, using a rag to clean a mug. A father and his son sat on the tall barstools near the counter, their mittens resting on an empty seat beside them.

Near the corner, a long window looked out at the streets. An inviting “open” sign and backwards writing on the glass spelled out the name of the place. A few more round tables were also situated near the window.

At the farthest table, sat a girl.

The man near the door stood frozen, his gaze now locked to her face.

She was daydreaming, her chin rested in her hands, elbows mounted on the table, her eyes squinted and a little unfocused. Her head was turned towards the window, peering out towards a group of children playing in the snow, the light shining delicately across her face.
The man was perplexed at first, for this did not look like the person he had expected to see. He had expected a straggly, dirty woman, wearing tattered black clothes, dark finger polish painted over her already unhealthy nails, her exhausted, bloodshot eyes hidden behind a curtain of greasy red hair and gothic-inspired makeup, and a too-thin, frighteningly frail body. He had expected to see a girl who drew everyone away, but instead, he was faced with a woman so breathtakingly beautiful that he could not keep his eyes off her.
The first thing he noticed was her face. For once, he was able to see it. In place of stringy, thin locks, the woman now styled soft, lightly colored red hair that cascaded out of her headband and down her shoulders. Her dark blue eyes were so much prettier now that they were not smudged with black charcoal makeup. Her skin had always been pale, but he could tell immediately how much healthier it looked. Instead of patches of dark skin here and there, a warm, pearly-white color glowed evenly from every pore. Her usually colorless mouth was somehow replaced with full, pink lips.
The most surprising thing – to someone who hadn’t known her as well as the man did – was probably her wardrobe. She was wearing a casual, long-sleeved blue t-shirt with a lengthy, homemade white scarf and nicely fitting black corduroys. Second hand black snow boots were strapped onto her feet underneath the table. A gray winter coat hung loosely on the chair behind her, and white mittens that matched the scarf were resting on the tabletop.

The man realized he had not yet breathed, he had been so amazed. He took a long, deep breath, his eyes never leaving the woman.

“Sir? Would you like a cup of coffee?” the worker behind the counter asked, looking curiously at the frozen man. The man curtly shook his head, and then realizing the rudeness of the gesture, added, “No thank you, not now,” and the worker returned to cleaning the mug.
The exchange between the two men had stirred the woman in the corner from her daydream, and her eyes flicked away from the window and around the room. She sat up, straightening her body and letting her hands fall to her lap. Her round eyes suddenly found the man’s.

Yes, it really was her. His heart swelled with joy. How could it be? Was it really possible that the drugged up girl he had used to know was now so… clean? Her beauty was memorizing – he never wanted to look away. He smiled dazzling at her, a smile that would have made any sane woman blush. But a sad, almost nostalgic expression never left the girl’s face.
Her hand made the slightest movement in her lap, and the man’s gaze was broken. He looked down at her hands, and his mouth opened just a little. A gasp escaped his lips and as soon as his eyes made since of what he was seeing, he was dizzy with pain – he felt as if someone had punched him in the gut. Kicked him in the back. Slapped him in the face. He felt his swelling heart shattering to pieces.

The woman’s hands were resting at the bottom of an enormous sized, well-rounded bump protruding out of her belly.

The man’s straight posture faltered with utter, horrifying surprise, and his shoulders suddenly sagged along with the rest of him.

The woman, who had been watching every moment of his awful realization, bit her lip, her eyes filling with tears. A shudder ran through her body, and her head collapsed into her hands. The man could not hear it, but he knew she was weeping.
Although moving was quite difficult, as his limbs were shaking, he hurried over to her side without hesitation. He dragged the empty chair on the other side of the table towards her and sat down into it. He nervously reached out and touched the woman’s shoulders. Before he knew it, she had fallen forward into his arms, sobbing. With a shaking hand he stroked her hair, his eyes wide with complete fear.

“Oh, Danny…” she clutched at his jacket.

He couldn’t bring himself to say anything but gentle shhhh’s. After his mind stopped spinning enough for him to take control of his voice, he leaned toward her and whispered,

“Is it… mine?”

She nodded weakly into his chest, and the man’s eyes stung with bitter tears.

“Henrietta… Why – Why didn’t you tell me? When did you find out?” He was trying to be comforting, but his voice came out like ice. He mentally counted back the months.
She sat back in her chair, and Daniel released her. She wiped her eyes with the blue sleeve of her shirt. Even when crying, with her eyes red and swollen, she still looked prettier then Daniel had ever seen her before.

Her lip quivered. “I found out a few weeks after we broke up. And… I tried… I – I tried to call you, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it, Daniel,” she paused to search through his eyes. She blinked and more tears dripped down her face. “You’re mad at me.”

Daniel took a deep breath, his heart racing. He looked at her hard in the eyes. “I’m not mad at you. This is my fault. I’m just…” it took a long time for him to think of the right word. It was as if his brain and mouth weren’t even connected anymore. “…Surprised.”

The two sat in silence for a while. One in complete shock, the other in a horrible, self-conscience state. Daniel suddenly noticed her insecurity, and he grabbed one of her hands.
“Henrietta… You are so beautiful,” he gulped back tears. “You’re… sober?”

She nodded. “Once I found out I was pregnant, I stopped. Everything.”

“That mustn’t have been easy.”

“It wasn’t as hard as I would have thought. When you have a reason, a real reason…” She looked back at the children outside. “Nothing else matters.”

Daniel followed her gaze outside. “Do you live here now? Benton?”

She again nodded. “My parents kicked me out of the house when I started showing. I had been trying to keep it a secret while I tried to figure out what to do… My aunt lives here. She’s a professor at the university. She took me in.”

Henrietta’s watery eyes filled with gratitude.

Daniel shook his head. “Henrietta, if only I had known sooner… I could have found a place for you to stay, with me, with my family…”

The woman’s eyes darkened. “That – That wouldn’t have worked.” She said simply, and Daniel realized how right she was. His family hated her – no, detested her.

“When are you due?”
Her eyes softened immediately, her hands subconsciously touching her stomach. “A month.”

This was another blow for Daniel. He tried not to act shocked, but it was all over his face… Henrietta somehow willed away the tears, being strong for the both of them.

“What is it?” He asked, quieter then anything else he had said that day.

Henrietta smiled sadly. “A girl.”

When the words left her lips, the world went silent. Daniel’s mind was consumed by the realness of the situation. It wasn’t a dream, no, it was realer then reality itself… The seriousness of the situation flooded his mind. He was going to be a father. A baby girl… His baby girl… Was going to be born in a month. Just one month.

“Can I?” He asked as if in a dream, his voice cracking, gesturing with his hands to touch her stomach. She nodded, and he carefully placed one of his palms over her expanding torso. With his gentle touch came a fluttering kick in response, confirming the young life within.
At this, Daniel broke into tears. He covered his eyes with a single hand and cried.

Henrietta pulled him towards her, and his already limp head fell towards her blossoming stomach. She placed her hands comfortingly around him, leaning her head against his. He felt her shaking, too. She had also succumbed to tears.

“I’m with you now,” he said quietly through quiet sobs, both to the baby and its mother. “I’m not gonna leave you. We’re going to find a way to make this work. I’ll do anything. Anything. I promise.”
A little while longer, the man needed to leave. Before he did, he stood up and hugged the woman with more love then he had ever felt before. Before now, he hadn’t known what love was… He thought he had loved the girl who stood before him, now a woman, but all he had felt then was lust and desire. Now he could truly see what an amazing, courageous person she had turned into, the sacrifice she was making. He could feel the shattered pieces of his heart fixing themselves, with more strength then ever. He was scared to death, yes, but that didn’t matter… He knew he would do anything.

He forced himself to exit the shop and walk back where he had come.

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It was a crisp, clear, January morning when the villagers of Benton spotted him. He was alone, his hands shoved into the pockets of his trousers, his black coat buttoned up to his neck. His face was long, and narrow, his copper-colored hair getting tousled with each gust of the bitter wind. Fear lurked behind sparkling green eyes that contrasted against a sprinkle of faded freckles across his nose. But there was something else, now, too… The people who looked were not quite sure of what it was. A mixture of hope, and faith, and determination and courage. Love, but sadness also, deep, deep sadness…

He stepped lightly through the un-plowed city streets; his pair of highly priced winter boots, laced up neatly over his feet, making the slightest crunching sound with every step he took through the snow that had fallen the night before.

The people of Benton did not often walk the streets alone…
OKAY IM DONE. SORRY IT WAS LONGER THEN I EXPECTED... THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR ANSWERS
I just read it over again and it's pretty bad, haha it needs a lot of work but your feedback would be great!

Pytanie #44:

What is she trying to prove?

Me and a girl (european exchange student, if that is even important) work together at our student job on campus, and we HAD been friends for over 2 years. So LONG story short I fell for her in a big way but she wasn't interested. After I asked her out the first time and got rejected, about a month later she started being really friendly with me eventually she asked me to help her look for a car. Well a few weeks and a lot of my time later she had a car and I had helped register it smog check the works. Well I stupidly saw all this time she was spending with me as a sign she liked me so i asked her out again, WRONG. A close friend pointed out to me that this was just one time out of MANY where this girl was just using me because she knew I liked her and how when ever I needed something she was always busy. I am more ashamed that I let myself become her personal lap dog and let her walk all over me. I could deal with her not reciprocating my feelings but I was angry that she abused my kindness like that because she knew I liked her. I have learned a lot about her since then that i did not realize before that would probably turn any guy off of her (she is a user, a tease, manipulator, future gold digger,etc..). She has shown her true colors and it ain't pretty. So now skip forward a couple months and believe me I am no longer her 'go to guy' for everything thing. I don't even speak to her outside of work. she probably still thinks we are BFF's like we used to be but she is strictly a co-worker to me now. we are back in school and all of a sudden she is dressing really 'scandalous', 'revealing', 'trashy', 'slutty', whatever you want to call it. I know she is doing it to attract attention from 'whoever' at school but the way she dresses in completely inappropriate for work. and no matter how much I don't like her now it is hard not to stare when she dresses like that. Why would she even dress this way around me, especially with the awkward past we have? (she can dress however she wants at school but I don't appreciate her being that way around me at work) Besides would you dress that way around a guy who probably still has unresolved/mixed/confusing feelings about you even though you don't like him?

P.S. I may not have to worry about it though because I have informed my supervisor about her inappropriate work attire.

Pytanie #45:

Is there anything wrong with someone who it extremely selfless to be selfish in 1 aspect?

I am an extremely selfless person! I’m always put myself last in everything! So I was just wondering if there's anything wrong with being selfish in 1 aspect?
Here's what I'm talking about! It’s a long read and I have to go into details for you to understand the question!
Ok I met a girl about 2 and a half years ago, and for the 1st week it was going good we were hanging out having fun! About a week later she starts giving me signals! I thought she was starting to like me, so I asked her if she did and she said “No I just want to be friends”! So I tried to back off then it started to happen again and it really started to mess me up inside! I had fallen for her hard I didn't know what to do so I just bottled it up! 3 months later she got kicked out of her brother’s place so I told her that she can live at my place (I live with my folks & We had to share a room!)!
The signals started to get worse and I started to fall harder for her! After she moved in we would drink! One night we drank a little too much and without going into details she wanted to sleep with me! But needless to say nothing happened! (This happened 3 times well she lived with me!) Well she was living with me she was really mean to me and treated me like a doormat! But I just took everything she had to throw at me and brushed it off! About 6 months later she moved out because we were always fighting we were at each other’s throats!
We didn’t talk much after she left because she was always busy! So 1 night I messaged her on MSN and she was being a B!tch so I blocked her! I didn’t think I would have seen her again so I tried to forget her and about 2-3 weeks ago I bumped into her at the store! She said “hi” to me I said “hi” back, she caught me off guard and I bolted out of the store! But when I saw her it all came back, and it’s hitting me harder now than ever! That same night she messaged me on MSN and told me she was getting evicted so I told her she could come live with me again! She is a much nicer person now any we are getting along really well but I still love her and I donno what to do!
Here is the selfish part!
Ever since I’ve known her I have been looking out for her! I have had control over her life! (Every time I wanted something or someone to leave her life it happened!)! I prayed to keep her safe and keep the wrong guys out of her life! I know she loves me bcuz of the way she is with me and I can read her very well, but she won’t give me a chance bcuz I am the only real friend she has ever had and she is afraid to lose me! Now is it wrong to pray that we be together or should I just keep bottling it up?
Sorry for the long read but I need otside opinions!
We didn't sleep together bcuz I won't sleep with someone who's drunk!

Pytanie #46:

My boyfriend doesn't text me as much, is their something wrong?

Me and my boyfriend haven't been as compatible as we once felt together after a big fight. Now every since then I've been getting a vibe from him that he doesn't feel the same that he once did anymore. He reassured me that he still felt the same for me, but I just don't feel it. Well recently he stopped texting me as much as he used to. He has a busy lifestyle and would atleast take out the time to text me periodically throughout the day; Specifically in the mornings he would take out the time to text me no matter what. Well today he didn't, which is quite a shocker for me. I had to text him first this time. I don't feel like me and him are as compatible as I thought we were and our relationship is holding unto a string. I've been holding on to him because I am afraid of being alone and never finding someone as goal driven as he is. I don't know how to handle or how to feel about him now that he feels that he doesn't have to speak to me as much. I almost feel that he believes that he can take me for granted now that I am so emotionally invested in him, though i'm not sure. What should I do? Am I looking to much into the missing text? If so why?

Pytanie #47:

Where can my Kids watch full episodes of their favorite kids show in Canada?

They like Martha Speaks, Sponge bog, Busy town, George Shrinks and stuff that is mostly on pbs kids. But because we're Canadian we can't watch them there.

Pytanie #48:

Is this how our Govt remains "neutral" when it comes to religion?

Absolutely what Fu*king business is it of the federal Govt is the company gives them time off to pray or not?

Where is this ANY of the Govt's concern??? Leftists, got any answers for me on this one? You guys are big on keeping religion out of Govt?

excerpt...
Islam surely has a friend in our government. While our rulers' plans to use our money to help build a massive shrine to Islamic terrorism at Ground Zero get most of the attention, countless other stories play out in the shadows — like this one:

Federal officials say a JBS Swift & Co. meatpacking plant should give Muslim employees prayer time and not retaliate against workers who ask to pray. The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission filed a lawsuit Monday on behalf of more than 80 Somali Muslims. …
Hundreds of Muslim workers walked off the job at the Grand Island, Neb., plant during Ramadan in 2008, saying they needed time to pray at sunset and break a day-long fast. Management adjusted the work schedule the next day. Non-Muslims protested and the accommodations ended.
The accommodations ended for now, that is. Eight-six Muslims were fired for walking off the job, but they'll be back, as will their special privileges. We infidels will just have to work a little harder to pick up the slack.

Try to imagine Christians refusing to work because they're too busy praying, getting fired for walking out, then having the full force of the federal government come crashing down on the employers on their behalf.
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Mr WOlf: so I guess this means you think the Govt should keep out of this fight? Or do you think the Govt should force this private company to give the muslims time off to pray?
Please answer the question.
JD: and with your IQ so low already, I'm sorry you lost the last few you had.
I'm curious why you didn't answer the question...should Govt force this company to give the muslims time off to pray or not?
JC: ANSWER the question please, should Govt force this company to give time off so the muslims can go pray?
Why won't you answer it?

Pytanie #49:

Desperately need ur help, esp. guys!?

Im 18 my ex is 19. A few days ago he broke up with me because he told me that he doesnt have enough time to see me. He lives 40 mins away and is gonna be busy with a job and possibly college..and because of that he is "taking a break". I called him and he told me he jus has so much on his mind and isnt thinkin straight.

Im soooo hurt from this and I dont feel like this relationship is ready to end. We havent talked since then and Idk if he will end up trying to get a hold of me to try and talk things out, because he barely did.

I wonder, will he end up regreting it soon? Will he get a hold of me? I was thinkin about gettin a hold of him and askin if we can talk this out in person. What does he mean by "takin a break" does he mean that its totally over or just for now? Thanks so much. I feel i have been a lil hard on him about not seeing me enough when we were in the relationship.

Pytanie #50:

I need advice and help!!! D:?

Okay so, my fiancee is out of the country for the next few months, and I can't stand the fact that we are so separated. But we always keep in touch over the phone or on the internet when he's not busy with work. So yesterday, he told me for the next two days we won't be able to answer his phone at all, and then he randomly asked me to leave him a "sexy voicemail." I don't mind at all doing it for him, but I have no idea what to do or say in the voicemail. I know this is a weird question, but, what am I supposed to say in this voicemail. I really do want to leave him a message, but when it comes to being sexual, I am completely clueless about it. I know this will sound weird, but advice and tips would be really appreciated





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